Dear friends, can you say me the meaning of LOVE? No, I don’t want to know about the feelings of being in LOVE, but what actually LOVE means. Some people may say, it is a different phase of a person’s life, or a gift of GOD, but I differ strongly.. According to me, LOVE means: - Loss Of Valuable Energy.
Somebody has been gifted by the true gift of LOVE, but in most of the cases “falling” in LOVE ends up with suffering, plight and tremendous set backs which lasts throughout the life in many cases. We have to compromise everything in order to sustain the relation. In maximum cases, the girl has to sacrifice but her counterpart goes on ordering and arguing if anything goes wrong. But, the vice-versa is not an exception; i.e. the woman power is dominant. Whatever it may be, the consequence of LOVE is not always heavenly. First of all, please don’t “fall” in LOVE. If you be in LOVE, nourish the feeling with time and patience. Don’t be in a hurry to confess everything and don’t be commitment-phobic which is the case with many of us is. First settle with yourselves and whenever you feel the feeling that both of you cannot live without each other, go for a steady relationship. Good friendship, trust can give birth to a love affair but the vice-versa cannot give birth to a good friendship. In that case the boy or girl is committed to his/her counterpart, but cannot share everything with him/her. This keeps that person in confusion as well as dilemma. The person on the other side is too in the same trouble. Consequence is the feeling of insecurity for losing each other or creating a gap in their mutual trust. Once this mutual trust is broken, it is like a mirror. Even if it can be put back into its old place, but it keeps a mark of brokenness.
Many of my friends say, “Please give a girl friend, life’s boring without love.” I only smile at such a feeling of theirs but they can’t realize what a mistake they are making. Love cannot be obtained in haste. It is a divine gift, give it a time and it will nourish. If not, they it will leave a deep cut mark in your heart.
“Falling” in love with a person at the first site may let you fall in problems. Do not run behind a person, but let that person run after you. Then you’re the driving force. Keep faith on yourself and keep your life rocking. But the main thing is that, be happy. God has given a life, enrich it. Kick off all your sorrows and you can live your life to the fullest.
“Jee bhar ke jee lo, kya pata kal ho na ho..”
Somebody has been gifted by the true gift of LOVE, but in most of the cases “falling” in LOVE ends up with suffering, plight and tremendous set backs which lasts throughout the life in many cases. We have to compromise everything in order to sustain the relation. In maximum cases, the girl has to sacrifice but her counterpart goes on ordering and arguing if anything goes wrong. But, the vice-versa is not an exception; i.e. the woman power is dominant. Whatever it may be, the consequence of LOVE is not always heavenly. First of all, please don’t “fall” in LOVE. If you be in LOVE, nourish the feeling with time and patience. Don’t be in a hurry to confess everything and don’t be commitment-phobic which is the case with many of us is. First settle with yourselves and whenever you feel the feeling that both of you cannot live without each other, go for a steady relationship. Good friendship, trust can give birth to a love affair but the vice-versa cannot give birth to a good friendship. In that case the boy or girl is committed to his/her counterpart, but cannot share everything with him/her. This keeps that person in confusion as well as dilemma. The person on the other side is too in the same trouble. Consequence is the feeling of insecurity for losing each other or creating a gap in their mutual trust. Once this mutual trust is broken, it is like a mirror. Even if it can be put back into its old place, but it keeps a mark of brokenness.
Many of my friends say, “Please give a girl friend, life’s boring without love.” I only smile at such a feeling of theirs but they can’t realize what a mistake they are making. Love cannot be obtained in haste. It is a divine gift, give it a time and it will nourish. If not, they it will leave a deep cut mark in your heart.
“Falling” in love with a person at the first site may let you fall in problems. Do not run behind a person, but let that person run after you. Then you’re the driving force. Keep faith on yourself and keep your life rocking. But the main thing is that, be happy. God has given a life, enrich it. Kick off all your sorrows and you can live your life to the fullest.
“Jee bhar ke jee lo, kya pata kal ho na ho..”
